Are you interested in joining a robust community of people who are PASSIONATE about body language….and looking to improve their own non verbal communication skills to boot?  Here is a great place to do it!  Lots of great questions, answers and interaction on everything you need to know about becoming more persuasive, more passionate and more powerful with what you are REALLY saying….even when you’re not saying a word!  (check out the body language community question and answer site at the link immediately following the excerpt below)  Enjoy!

I have a little problem….that Im a really self confident girl…but i don’t know how to use my body language to show this….because in the past I used to be uncofident and shy..and it seems that it has all stucked with me…that I feel like it’s hard to be me sometimes…so I want to know all about self-confident body language..thanks..xx

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 I guess it really depends on you, right?  I mean….what are your goals?  Are you single and looking for love?  Or trying to move up the career totem pole of importance?  Are you spending your weekends bar hopping and looking for LUST?  Or are you just trying to understand your partner…..or even your family members better? 

Regardless of the reason…learning body language signs is a GREAT investment in your health, wealth and mental well being..:-)  Check out the short article below on some good reasons why some people find body language a GREAT way to expand their horizons in more ways than one! 

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Are you interested in learning how to read body language? Think it sounds like an interesting exercise in studying human behavior… but aren’t sure of the real benefits you’ll get if you do? The truth is… if you think that understanding non verbal communication patterns MAY actually reveal REAL secrets about the people in your life right now… the simple truth is, you’d be RIGHT!

Career Confidence: Let’s be honest – most of the people we encounter in the work place are NOT that smart. They aren’t that savvy… and they are often emotional, scheming, secretive and unfortunately, not 100% trustworthy. Learning the subtle signs of lying for example, is an amazing eye opener in the work place, and can often give you a competitive ADVANTAGE over people your peers in a whole hodge podge of powerful ways.

Learning Body Language – 2 Killer Reasons to Learn How to Read Body Language Today

Gyrating & Thrusting:

The truth? This SHOULD be one of the most obvious signs she’s batty about you in bed….yet many men still don’t understand how to interpret this for what it is. Listen – many of the BEST signs of super sex for a woman are completely involuntary…which means that she can’t control how subtle (or sexy) they really are.

Heaving Breasts & Rapid Respiration:

This is one of the KEY things to look for that surely signals she’s super into whatever you’ve got going on! An increase in respiration (or heartbeat and breathing) is one of the easiest ways to tell she’s having fun, turned on and being MOVED physiologically by your magical moves..:-) The fact is, you can even see this level of excitement BEFORE sex begins…..as a woman who is interested in your sexually will start to breathe a little faster, and with more shallow intakes as anticipation builds. (and begins)

Glassy or “StarStruck” Eyes:

Honestly? A woman’s eyes will often get glassy….or even “teary” as she gets excited both BEFORE, and during sex. This is a somewhat primitive sign of interest, intimacy and erotic imagination….and clearly says she wants MORE of whatever it is you’ve got to offer..:-) (no joke!)

The fact is…..MOST men completely overlook the telltale signs of serious sexual interest:

She pouts with her lips….and makes sporadic eye contact (a dead giveaway)
Body POSTURE and positioning is critical (look for toes pointed outward….hips thrust forward)
She plays with HER hair….A LOT! (a nervous, subliminal sign of sexual desire)
She plays with YOUR hair…..even a little..:-) (okay…hopefully ALL of you pick up on this one)

Women have tell tale signs of sexual interest…and they are MUCH different from those of a man. If you miss them…the simple truth is that someone else is likely to pick them up…and then of course, pick her up as well!

Here is why understanding female body language is SO important when it comes to making love to a woman. (especially one you DON’T know too well)

Why? Women are inherently nonverbal creatures when it comes to sex…at least in the initial stages of a relationship. Missing out on the simple signs she’s trying communicate to you could be the difference between scoring BIG and striking out..:-) (believe it or not….most men will strike out OR come on so strong….that they blow the whole rapport to boot)

So understanding sexual sensitivity….AND subtlety is super important as well. (because you CAN’T be a “bull in a china shop” when it comes to interpreting sexual body language in a woman….OR your run the risk of turning her OFF completely) And picking up on the language of lust is NOT difficult either. If all else fails…..look for lots of fidgeting, a glimmer in the eye, touching her OWN breasts (lightly) and the way she “mirrors” your body in conversation. It doesn’t’ get ANY easier to read than that!

Here is a funny article we found from around the web on exactly that…and how you can tell if he’s REALLY flirting with you, or simply checking out the clock on the wall..:-)  You can read the whole story at the link below.

Is he Flirting with you? Reading Men’s Body Language

Did you catch a glimpse of him looking at you from across the room?Did you notice his eyebrows?1. In His FaceOften when our eyes meet an attractive stranger’s our eyebrows raise up then go back down.

This slit-second gesture (called the “eyebrow flash”) can be an invitation to start a conversation. Raising his eyebrows in a “surprise” manner during conversation is also a good signal.Eye contact can defiantly help decode his feelings.

A man might hold a women’s gaze just slightly longer than normal to indicate his interest.Another male flirting cue to slightly flare his nostrils, make his face appear wider.

His lips may also part slightly.male body language Eyes- Lingering eye contact- Eyebrow FlashChest & Arms- ILS(Invisible Lats Syndrome)Hands- Grooming- Gestures Legs- Relaxed, shoulder’s width apart Feet- Pointed toward you 2. Manly MannerismsYou’ll know he is trying to impress you when he moves into his classic courtship stance:

Is he Flirting with you? Reading Men’s Body Language – Blifaloo.com

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Because people can learn to mask or fake their nonverbal cues (indeed, readers of this book will learn to prevent others from reading their body language if that is their desire), body language will never be an exact science.

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But it the rare person who puts in the effort to create such a mask, and even the rarer one who can maintain it – making the mastery of deciphering nonverbal cues in most situations quite possible, and well worth the effort.

With practice and a keen understanding of the basics, the study of body language can give you a tremendous edge! It is our intention to provide this for you right here on these pages….AND our free course.

Let’s take another look at the Body Language Overview and What We’ve Covered Thus Far!

1. Neuroscience now backs up body language theories.
2. Mastering body language gives people an edge in dealing with others.
3. The scientific term for nonverbal communication is kinesics.
4. Body language is both a learned and instinctual process.
5. Body language includes both reflexive and non-reflexive bodily movements.
6. Body language will NOT make you a psychic.
7. Single movements do not give a clear body language picture.
8. Words, tone of voice and body language must be given near equal weight when interpreting a speaker’s message.

Interest in body language first gained popularity in the early 1970s when Fast wrote the pivotal book, appropriately titled “Body Language”. Since then, it has gone on to become the topic of dozens of books and a specialty subject of psychologists around the globe.

And What About Body Language Study Today?

Today, body language has become a household term and, thanks in large part to research completed during the 1990s’ “Decade of the Brain”, many of the meanings behind the nonverbal signs and cues Fast wrote about in 1970 are now backed by neuroscience.

In other words, time hasn’t so much changed body language as helped it to evolve into something more—more compelling, more concrete and more scientific.

So Why Learn To Read and Control Body Language?

Because It’s Almost Like Reading Minds!

Because so much of a person’s body language is reflexive and because nonverbal cues can contradict what a person is actually saying, learning how to read such cues (and also how to control our own body language) gives a person a superior edge in:

• Detecting truth and lies.
• Discovering when someone is attracted.
• Creating sexual and romantic interest.
• Portraying confidence and commanding respect.
• Putting people at ease.
• Making friends.
• Creating a sense of trust.
• Persuading, selling, and influencing other people.
• Much more!

Note: The MOST powerful use of body language is achieved when combined with a technique called “conversational hypnosis”. This combines use of verbal language with body cues and positioning