But 2 QUICK things come to mind:

1. The secrets of your slumbering mind often hold the most precious (and revealing) secrets of your inner psyche that tell FAR more about what, who (and what) you attract into your life than just about anything else.
2. The other reason your DREAMS are so important to understanding body language is because we want to GIVE you a free piece of dream interpretation software….so you can understand (and accomplish!) your OWN dreams, from the comfort of your own home. (no pesky couches, prodding psychologists or annoying self help gurus necessary)

Want to know why?

Some of you who know us personally already know this….but we’re interested in a whole lot MORE then your body language.

For us (and probably for you, too) living your BEST life involves getting ALL of the competitive advantages you can….and that’ been our focus for the last 5 or 6 years.

Actually, we write, publish and share all KINDS of tools, techniques and technologies for TOTAL transformation.

1. How to get ahead in your career.
2. make more money.
3. have more fun!
4. become more self confident….
5. become more sexually attractive
6. And simply a creative cacophony of the very BEST ideas for becoming the best version of yourself possible. (because I’m a firm believer that your highest self awaits!)

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As I’m sure you agree, it all starts with information (and execution)

Knowledge is power…..and there are so many simple ’secrets’ that can give you incremental improvements in your life….and when ’stacked’ can open a wide window in the wonderful world of BECOMING the very best, most free, fun and expressively creative and amazing version of yourself possible. (sounds like a big promise…..but it’s TRUE!)

So what is our exciting news?

Well, first……let me give a little bit of abbreviated back story:

One of our subscribers, sent me a really nice digital e-card on Christmas thanking us for sharing some really great free resources with him early last year. He purchased our body language ebook a while back…and we exchanged a few emails with him after the fact….recommending he check out some other cool personal development tools that we were giving away for free. (He was trying to become a life coach)

To be honest with you……I didn’t hear back from him for a while, and close to 8 months passed….and I totally forgot about him! (busy year!)

And when I got the really nice ecard for Christmas….it took me a few minutes to remember who he was.

All the card said was – Thanks! And had a picture of himself with a few people I later learned were new life coaching clients!

In parenthesis…..he wrote – "why don’t you share this stuff with everyone?"

My first thought was…..what stuff? And then I went back and checked….dug out the old emails we exchanged, and figure out pretty fast what we had sent.

The truth?

it occurred to me how many people, maybe even you…..would LOVE to have access to all sorts of stuff that could help them simply suck the MOST joy and juice out of life possible….without having to buy it all from online "gurus" and manipulative marketers who don’t have your best interest at heart.

So starting in 2010….we’re going to be sharing ALL of our killer tips, tools, techniques and technologies in one place.

And we want you to join us….for free.

Here is the rub…..

Lots of you reading this right now are ONLY on our body language list.

And to be perfectly honest….you are MISSING out!

We have so much good stuff to share and to be honest with you, most of those of you who are interested in learning body language are interested in making explosive improvements in your life overall, right?

Well..on the very last day of 2009, pondering the email exchange above – I decided, in 2010…..we were going to do our BEST to accommodate you across the board..:-)

So here is what you need to do next.

• Go and download our FREE dream interpretation software.

it’s fun. it’s free. it’s enlightening. And it’s just a taste of some of the cool tools, techniques and technologies were going to share with you this year.

• Then, make sure you verify your free email subscription after you get the download…..so we can send you more free stuff and it help u make 2010 YOUR best year ever.
• And make sure to follow us on twitter right here.

Why?

Because not only is Twitter is a great way to spread GREAT ideas, share killer resources and spread the love…it’s ALSO an easy way to share lots of cool things with our friends, without having to annoy you with more email. (if you are like me….you are a "less is more" fan when it comes to getting email and newsletters)

Plus it gives us a chance to know you better personally…and that’s always a good thing too.

And – We want to hear what you want more of….so we can make sure to give you more of it! (I’ve already put together a few really cool free personal development resources that you are going to ONLY find on by following us on twitter, along with a couple other surprises I’m not yet at liberty to reveal..:-)

It’s all going to be very cool – and I’m pretty stoked about some of the great feedback we’ve gotten so far.

Ready?

1. Go grab your dream software. (it’s free…….just sign up so we know where to send you your download link)
2. Follow us on Twitter.
3. And then start to get serious about making 2010 THE year where you put it all together. Mind. Body. Money. Spirit. Relationships. Together, we’re going to make it the best year ever…….period!

Does our body language EXPOSE those little white lies, harmless exaggerations or even more SINISTER dishonesty?  Can you spill the beans with your non verbal communication…..even AFTER you’ve gotten your SPOKEN story straight? 

The truth is….as most of you already know, a resounding and unequivocal YES! 

Want proof? 

1. Just about every major police force and intelligence agency around the globe uses body language analysis to detect lies and spot criminal behavior.  (or intention)
2. Major money is spent on big budget defenses for body language analysis in jury selection.
3. Most major employers train their recruiting, HR and hiring personnel in the fine art and science of reading applicants body language for TRUTHFULLNESS and spotting deceit.

And SPOUSES around the globe are well versed in the intimate inner workings of what sort of body language REALLY reveals a lying, cheating or deceptive partner who is NOT being 100% honest in what they promise is true!  (just ask Tiger Woods how that story ends…:-)

Check Out Some of The Most POWERFUL Persuasion Techniques for Instant Charisma, Confidence & Persuasive Power. Learn How to Master Conversational Hypnosis!

Truly understanding the nuances of conversation and becoming a super skilled communicator, is an essential quality for ANYONE who wants to get ahead in life.

And understanding Body Language "tells" is a HUGELY important part of inter personal communication….and a failure to understand the intricacies of what someone is REALLY saying, can have devastating and catastrophic effects on not only your relationships….but your ability to succeed in many areas overall.  (Hint…..you can finally STOP being a victim!)

Please note….

There is another side of the art and science of becoming more powerful, more persuasive and more personable as well.  What is it?  The combination of mastering BOTH non verbal AND verbal communication patterns of influence to become irresistibly charming, CONFIDENT, charismatic and in control.…in just about EVERY conversation, (or confrontation) you find yourself party do….day in and day out.    

Conversational Hypnosis, for example is one method that we’ve recommended in the past and one that many aficionados of persuasiveness have found to be an invaluable tool in amping UP their persuasive powers extremely fast.

The NEXT Frontier for Body Language Mastery….The Amazing Power of Conversational Hypnosis!

(it’s NOT for everybody….but it very well may be for you if you’re super SERIOUS about taking your personal power to the next level)

Once again, the key to all of this stuff is pretty simple: 

Find the best available tips, tools and TECHNOLOGIES and use them to create massive internal transformation! 

That’s what I strive to do….and that’s our goal to share with you as well!

Once again….here is great, short little video montage of some pretty simple signs you ARE being lied to…and of course, what you need to know to get the upper hand when it happens! 

Enjoy…and don’t forget to leave us a comment below if you’ve liked the ones we’ve posted this far, along with anything else you’d like for us to share!
 

Who else wants to learn how to become more POWERFUL with their body language?

The simple truth is that one of the most FREQUENT questions we get from readers is how to appear more persuasive, personable and powerful, but……without having to change your personality, or become "fake" to do it.

And why should this be important to you?

1. Body Language is obviously super important in the workplace!
2. Your body language can either project CONFIDENCE.….or cowardice (you choose!)
3. Successful People have VERY similar motions, movements, gestures, postures and patterns. (figure these out and you’ll APPEAR successful….even if you’re still working your way to the top!)
4. No one gets a SECOND chance to make a first impression: Learn how a simple handshake could be the ONLY thing you need to make an unforgettable one.…fast!
5. What are verbal cues? (and the #1 thing you MUST not do if you don’t want to appear pushy, over-eager or too aggressive)
6. How much eye contact is comfortable? You want to appear CONFIDENT (but not creepy!)

Remember…..most of what you are communicating to others on a moment by moment basis is the stuff you are saying….when you aren’t saying a word!

And as many of you who have invested in our popular body language e course can attest, the benefits of making subtle "success" shifts in how you present yourself, can have INSTANT benefits, from the boardroom, to the bedroom…and beyond..:-)

With this in mind, take a peek at this short, but super instructive video that covers some simple, yet super easy to implement habits you can INSTANTLY use to make yourself more "saleable" in the workplace.

(and as I’m sure you’ll agree….in today’s hyper competitive job market, any UNFAIR ADVANTAGE you can get, is well worth getting!)

Enjoy….& make sure to try some of these simple, easy to implement tips and techniques Monday morning at the office!

(and of course, for the full enchilada of advanced tips, tricks and techniques proven to amp UP your presentational power…our COMPLETE body language course is only a few short mouse clicks away..:-)

Who is ready for a CRASH course "refresher" on some of the more POWERFUL body language tips we’ve learned thus far?  

If you’re ready for 150 seconds of simple, straightforward techniques to become the very BEST human lie detector around town…..you are going to LOVE this short video from Howcast.

What sort of stuff are we going to review?

It’s ALL in the Eyes!

1. How to quickly and easily tell if someone is LYING in 6 seconds or LESS (Hint…….Just ask a simple question and look out for THIS!)
2. The easiest way to gage cock sure confidence.…..BEFORE they even say a word! (This is great to mimic if you’ve got an important interview coming up)
3. What does DIRECT eye contact really say about you?  (could it really be the ONLY thing you need to do to become super sexy….almost OVERNIGHT?)
4. And the absolute FASTEST way to tell if they think you are SEXY  (or stupid!)

And what about those OTHER body language "tells" we’ve talked so much about?

• Does fidgeting mean you make them nervous……or are you simple BORING their pants off?  (and no….NOT in a good way..:-)

All of this and MORE…..simply hit play, and recap some of the best basic body language tells, tips & techniques you NEED to learn to become sexier, more successful, and simply more SAVVY, almost instantly!

PS:  There are at least 2 "TIPS" mentioned in this video that we STRONGLY disagree with.  (or think could be REALLY expanded upon.  Did you catch which 2 they were?  If you’re read our whole body language mastery course, I’m guessing you immediately identified the "offending" areas..:-) 

For everyone else……..care to take a guess? 

Get involved….and share in the comments below!  We’re curious JUST how closely you’re paying attention to the lessons you’re getting in your inbox…:-)

Enjoy!

Let’s talk a little bit and women, and SEX, and body language:

Now listen up: I’m NOT going to tell you that what a woman DOES with her body is more important than what she says….as obviously that’s a pretty dangerous recommendation to make! Remember….when a woman SAYS "no", that’s what she means! But, when you are flirting with someone and the interest is mutual…..you can often read a whole bunch of sexy intentions into what she’s TRYING to say, simply by watching her move.

For example:

When a woman opens her lips and gives you that pouty look…….especially when you are talking, it often means that she’s secretly thinking about kissing you, or, you kissing her..:-)

This is even MORE pronounced when she’s flirting with her eyes as well….and giving you a mischievous and super sexy stare, when you’re having fun and having a great conversation.

More overt signs that she’s sexually interested in you are obvious….yet many men still fail to recognize them:

A pushing out of the breasts…..an arching of the back, or even a woman who will gently touch her own shoulders, chest or other sensitive (and sexy) spots, while having an otherwise "innocent" conversation.

Other body language signs can be even SEXIER…..and a sure shot sign she’s not only INTERESTED, but she’s probably INTIMATELY interested in getting to know you a whole lot better!

We’re out…and about…and we THINK we may know what someone pretty damn attractive is saying, but we’re not quite sure.

Or even MORE often……..

I think she likes me……or not?

Is he REALLY looking at me……or is it the CLOCK on the wall?

Is she SIGNALING me to come over……..or does she just have a twitch?

We’ve all had that happen, right?

Here is a pretty funny video that sort of captures a little bit of the "body language dance" experience, in a pretty funny and entertaining way.  (and don’t forget to check out  the ending – pretty funny too!)

Any of this look familar to YOU? 

Let us know – get involved and leave a comment below!  In the meantime…enjoy..:-)

If you are like many people who enjoy learning about the fine art (and science) of non verbal communication, the simple truth is that the BASICS, are the best place to begin!  Of course we recommend you check out our completely free e course on mastering body language, you can still check out lots of cool and informative online resources which help to elaborate a bit on the basics. 

Here is a nice little entry from Wikipedia on some of the common movements and motions that we ALL see day to day…and what they may really mean about the message your being sent.  Check it out at the link below…..and then stop back and let us know what you’d REALLY like to know about body language basics…and beyond! (so we can keep adding quality content that you enjoy!)
 

Physical expressions like waving, pointing, touching and slouching are all forms of nonverbal communication. The study of body movement and expression is known as kinesics. Humans move their bodies when communicating because, as research has shown, it helps “ease the mental effort when communication is difficult.” Physical expressions reveal many things about the person using them. For example, gestures can emphasize a point or relay a message, posture can reveal boredom or great interest, and touch can convey encouragement or caution.[4] * One of the most basic and powerful body-language signals is when a person crosses his or her arms across the chest.

This can indicate that a person is putting up an unconscious barrier between themselves and others. It can also indicate that the person’s arms are cold which would be clarified by rubbing the arms or huddling. When the overall situation is amicable, it can mean that a person is thinking deeply about what is being discussed. But in a serious or confrontational situation, it can mean that a person is expressing opposition. This is especially so if the person is leaning away from the speaker. A harsh or blank facial expression often indicates outright hostility. * Consistent eye contact can indicate that a person is thinking positively of what the speaker is saying. It can also mean that the other person doesn’t trust the speaker enough to “take his eyes off” the speaker.

Body language – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

What do you think?  Leave us a comment and let us know……..( or you can check out the full article at the link below!)

The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.

Signs of Deception:Body Language of Lies:• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear.

Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says “I love it!” when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, et

How to detect lies – body language, reactions, speech patterns

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Did you know that one of the biggest problems most men face when it comes to meeting and picking up sensationally sexy women is deciding when a girl is flirting…..or simply being friendly!  

It’s true…and just about every man I know struggles with figuring out how to decide if a women wants to take him home to bed…..or is simply a nice person who is making simple ( and harmless!) conversation!

But guys, when a woman is sexually interested in you, often the sexy signs are subtle, and she’s WAITING for you to pick them up, make your move and bring her home!  So what are some surefire signs she’s got you on her mind….and just about everywhere else as well?

A woman who touches her breasts…or collarbone lightly while talking to you:  This is a sub concious sign she’s self aware, self concious and sexually attracted.  If you see it…it’s time to amp up your game!

A Woman who holds eye contact…and then looks up, down or away quickly!  She’s sending you the sexy signals….yet is still nervous about what you think of her!  This is a great sign guys, and it’s time to let her know!

A Woman who stands unusually close in conversation:  She wants you and is agressive to boot!  These are often the wildest women in bed, so get ready to meet her move, get a bit more aggresive yourself, and prepare yourself for some passion!

The answer is a big, fat thumbs UP…and here is another story from around the web on a few things you can look for to see if his (or her!) love meter is turned up on high…and in hurry!  Enjoy..:-)

Love Signals * Private Distance: When you’re interested in someone you tend to keep a smaller private distance between you and him/her compared to the distance you would otherwise keep while being with others. You will notice that whoever might be interested in you is standing closer to you than to other people. For detailed information on private distance see this article.

* Smiles that Don’t Fade: A smile will not fade away quickly if the person is genuinely interested in you (that does not have to be love but worst case scenario, it will be deep interest).

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Only fake smiles fade away quickly, true smiles stay tend to linger a little longer.

* Positive Evaluation: In body language rubbing your brows with your fingers means that you positively evaluated something. Now what if someone positively evaluates seeing you?? If you want to see a picture for the positive evaluation gesture please check this link Positive evaluation gesture * Calling for No Reason: Calling you for any trivial reason like asking about something that he/she already knows or by just seeking confirmation to some kind of information.

If they were smart enough, they may find a good reason to call you but when the frequency of these calls increases, this usually indicates that there is something behind it. * Smiling: Smiling while talking to you even if there was no good reason for smiling is another strong sign. In most cases he/she will try to hide the smile so they will appear as if they want to smile but are holding themselves

Body Language’s Love Signals and other signals | 2KnowMySelf

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