I guess it really depends on you, right?  I mean….what are your goals?  Are you single and looking for love?  Or trying to move up the career totem pole of importance?  Are you spending your weekends bar hopping and looking for LUST?  Or are you just trying to understand your partner…..or even your family members better? 

Regardless of the reason…learning body language signs is a GREAT investment in your health, wealth and mental well being..:-)  Check out the short article below on some good reasons why some people find body language a GREAT way to expand their horizons in more ways than one! 

(link following the short excerpt below)

Are you interested in learning how to read body language? Think it sounds like an interesting exercise in studying human behavior… but aren’t sure of the real benefits you’ll get if you do? The truth is… if you think that understanding non verbal communication patterns MAY actually reveal REAL secrets about the people in your life right now… the simple truth is, you’d be RIGHT!

Career Confidence: Let’s be honest – most of the people we encounter in the work place are NOT that smart. They aren’t that savvy… and they are often emotional, scheming, secretive and unfortunately, not 100% trustworthy. Learning the subtle signs of lying for example, is an amazing eye opener in the work place, and can often give you a competitive ADVANTAGE over people your peers in a whole hodge podge of powerful ways.

Learning Body Language – 2 Killer Reasons to Learn How to Read Body Language Today

We get MORE questions about female body language (and specifically….female SEXUAL body language) than just about any other topic.  And who can blame you….trying to understand the wild, and willy ways of the female mind has confounded countless men over just about every culture, continent and century of human history…:-)

(Why should this one be any different?)

Here is a good article we found on 12 tips for reading female body language that we HOPE you like.  I don’t agree with ALL of the “tells” below…..see if you can figure out which ones are RIGHT…and which ones are a bit wonky, instead..:-) 

Enjoy!

1: Her chest. When indulging in foreplay, a pinkish flush will colour the skin of her chest, this is known as a “sex flush”. This occurs as a result of changes in her blood pressure and circulation, as well as her respiration and pulse rates. This is her subtle way of telling you that you could get lucky if you keep on with what you are doing. Another positive sign that you are doing it right is when her breasts start to enlarge. Women’s breasts will increase by as much as 25% when they are sexually aroused.

2: Her pupils. A woman’s pupils will dilate when she is stimulated by you. Subconsciously, her body is made to want to see more of whatever is pleasing her visually. To do this, her irises have to let in more light. At this point she is also starting to look hotter to you as well, as research has shown that guys are more attracted to girls with larger pupils. A win-win situation!

3: Her eyelashes. Look her in the eyes for a minute. She should be blinking about 15 times per minute. Research has shown that women on the Pill blink 32% faster than those who aren’t. How does this help you? Due to the shift in her hormone levels, women on the Pill are more sexually attracted to guys with rugged features and strong wide jaws. Strive for the confident, strong and hard image.

12 Tips for Reading Her Body Language Signals

Gyrating & Thrusting:

The truth? This SHOULD be one of the most obvious signs she’s batty about you in bed….yet many men still don’t understand how to interpret this for what it is. Listen – many of the BEST signs of super sex for a woman are completely involuntary…which means that she can’t control how subtle (or sexy) they really are.

Heaving Breasts & Rapid Respiration:

This is one of the KEY things to look for that surely signals she’s super into whatever you’ve got going on! An increase in respiration (or heartbeat and breathing) is one of the easiest ways to tell she’s having fun, turned on and being MOVED physiologically by your magical moves..:-) The fact is, you can even see this level of excitement BEFORE sex begins…..as a woman who is interested in your sexually will start to breathe a little faster, and with more shallow intakes as anticipation builds. (and begins)

Glassy or “StarStruck” Eyes:

Honestly? A woman’s eyes will often get glassy….or even “teary” as she gets excited both BEFORE, and during sex. This is a somewhat primitive sign of interest, intimacy and erotic imagination….and clearly says she wants MORE of whatever it is you’ve got to offer..:-) (no joke!)

The fact is…..MOST men completely overlook the telltale signs of serious sexual interest:

She pouts with her lips….and makes sporadic eye contact (a dead giveaway)
Body POSTURE and positioning is critical (look for toes pointed outward….hips thrust forward)
She plays with HER hair….A LOT! (a nervous, subliminal sign of sexual desire)
She plays with YOUR hair…..even a little..:-) (okay…hopefully ALL of you pick up on this one)

Women have tell tale signs of sexual interest…and they are MUCH different from those of a man. If you miss them…the simple truth is that someone else is likely to pick them up…and then of course, pick her up as well!

Here is why understanding female body language is SO important when it comes to making love to a woman. (especially one you DON’T know too well)

Why? Women are inherently nonverbal creatures when it comes to sex…at least in the initial stages of a relationship. Missing out on the simple signs she’s trying communicate to you could be the difference between scoring BIG and striking out..:-) (believe it or not….most men will strike out OR come on so strong….that they blow the whole rapport to boot)

So understanding sexual sensitivity….AND subtlety is super important as well. (because you CAN’T be a “bull in a china shop” when it comes to interpreting sexual body language in a woman….OR your run the risk of turning her OFF completely) And picking up on the language of lust is NOT difficult either. If all else fails…..look for lots of fidgeting, a glimmer in the eye, touching her OWN breasts (lightly) and the way she “mirrors” your body in conversation. It doesn’t’ get ANY easier to read than that!

But 2 QUICK things come to mind:

1. The secrets of your slumbering mind often hold the most precious (and revealing) secrets of your inner psyche that tell FAR more about what, who (and what) you attract into your life than just about anything else.
2. The other reason your DREAMS are so important to understanding body language is because we want to GIVE you a free piece of dream interpretation software….so you can understand (and accomplish!) your OWN dreams, from the comfort of your own home. (no pesky couches, prodding psychologists or annoying self help gurus necessary)

Want to know why?

Some of you who know us personally already know this….but we’re interested in a whole lot MORE then your body language.

For us (and probably for you, too) living your BEST life involves getting ALL of the competitive advantages you can….and that’ been our focus for the last 5 or 6 years.

Actually, we write, publish and share all KINDS of tools, techniques and technologies for TOTAL transformation.

1. How to get ahead in your career.
2. make more money.
3. have more fun!
4. become more self confident….
5. become more sexually attractive
6. And simply a creative cacophony of the very BEST ideas for becoming the best version of yourself possible. (because I’m a firm believer that your highest self awaits!)

Grab Your FREE Dream Interpretation Software…..& learn how to interpret your dreams for fun, passion and PROFIT and it’s OUR New Year’s Gift to You!

As I’m sure you agree, it all starts with information (and execution)

Knowledge is power…..and there are so many simple ’secrets’ that can give you incremental improvements in your life….and when ’stacked’ can open a wide window in the wonderful world of BECOMING the very best, most free, fun and expressively creative and amazing version of yourself possible. (sounds like a big promise…..but it’s TRUE!)

So what is our exciting news?

Well, first……let me give a little bit of abbreviated back story:

One of our subscribers, sent me a really nice digital e-card on Christmas thanking us for sharing some really great free resources with him early last year. He purchased our body language ebook a while back…and we exchanged a few emails with him after the fact….recommending he check out some other cool personal development tools that we were giving away for free. (He was trying to become a life coach)

To be honest with you……I didn’t hear back from him for a while, and close to 8 months passed….and I totally forgot about him! (busy year!)

And when I got the really nice ecard for Christmas….it took me a few minutes to remember who he was.

All the card said was – Thanks! And had a picture of himself with a few people I later learned were new life coaching clients!

In parenthesis…..he wrote – "why don’t you share this stuff with everyone?"

My first thought was…..what stuff? And then I went back and checked….dug out the old emails we exchanged, and figure out pretty fast what we had sent.

The truth?

it occurred to me how many people, maybe even you…..would LOVE to have access to all sorts of stuff that could help them simply suck the MOST joy and juice out of life possible….without having to buy it all from online "gurus" and manipulative marketers who don’t have your best interest at heart.

So starting in 2010….we’re going to be sharing ALL of our killer tips, tools, techniques and technologies in one place.

And we want you to join us….for free.

Here is the rub…..

Lots of you reading this right now are ONLY on our body language list.

And to be perfectly honest….you are MISSING out!

We have so much good stuff to share and to be honest with you, most of those of you who are interested in learning body language are interested in making explosive improvements in your life overall, right?

Well..on the very last day of 2009, pondering the email exchange above – I decided, in 2010…..we were going to do our BEST to accommodate you across the board..:-)

So here is what you need to do next.

• Go and download our FREE dream interpretation software.

it’s fun. it’s free. it’s enlightening. And it’s just a taste of some of the cool tools, techniques and technologies were going to share with you this year.

• Then, make sure you verify your free email subscription after you get the download…..so we can send you more free stuff and it help u make 2010 YOUR best year ever.
• And make sure to follow us on twitter right here.

Why?

Because not only is Twitter is a great way to spread GREAT ideas, share killer resources and spread the love…it’s ALSO an easy way to share lots of cool things with our friends, without having to annoy you with more email. (if you are like me….you are a "less is more" fan when it comes to getting email and newsletters)

Plus it gives us a chance to know you better personally…and that’s always a good thing too.

And – We want to hear what you want more of….so we can make sure to give you more of it! (I’ve already put together a few really cool free personal development resources that you are going to ONLY find on by following us on twitter, along with a couple other surprises I’m not yet at liberty to reveal..:-)

It’s all going to be very cool – and I’m pretty stoked about some of the great feedback we’ve gotten so far.

Ready?

1. Go grab your dream software. (it’s free…….just sign up so we know where to send you your download link)
2. Follow us on Twitter.
3. And then start to get serious about making 2010 THE year where you put it all together. Mind. Body. Money. Spirit. Relationships. Together, we’re going to make it the best year ever…….period!

Does our body language EXPOSE those little white lies, harmless exaggerations or even more SINISTER dishonesty?  Can you spill the beans with your non verbal communication…..even AFTER you’ve gotten your SPOKEN story straight? 

The truth is….as most of you already know, a resounding and unequivocal YES! 

Want proof? 

1. Just about every major police force and intelligence agency around the globe uses body language analysis to detect lies and spot criminal behavior.  (or intention)
2. Major money is spent on big budget defenses for body language analysis in jury selection.
3. Most major employers train their recruiting, HR and hiring personnel in the fine art and science of reading applicants body language for TRUTHFULLNESS and spotting deceit.

And SPOUSES around the globe are well versed in the intimate inner workings of what sort of body language REALLY reveals a lying, cheating or deceptive partner who is NOT being 100% honest in what they promise is true!  (just ask Tiger Woods how that story ends…:-)

Check Out Some of The Most POWERFUL Persuasion Techniques for Instant Charisma, Confidence & Persuasive Power. Learn How to Master Conversational Hypnosis!

Truly understanding the nuances of conversation and becoming a super skilled communicator, is an essential quality for ANYONE who wants to get ahead in life.

And understanding Body Language "tells" is a HUGELY important part of inter personal communication….and a failure to understand the intricacies of what someone is REALLY saying, can have devastating and catastrophic effects on not only your relationships….but your ability to succeed in many areas overall.  (Hint…..you can finally STOP being a victim!)

Please note….

There is another side of the art and science of becoming more powerful, more persuasive and more personable as well.  What is it?  The combination of mastering BOTH non verbal AND verbal communication patterns of influence to become irresistibly charming, CONFIDENT, charismatic and in control.…in just about EVERY conversation, (or confrontation) you find yourself party do….day in and day out.    

Conversational Hypnosis, for example is one method that we’ve recommended in the past and one that many aficionados of persuasiveness have found to be an invaluable tool in amping UP their persuasive powers extremely fast.

The NEXT Frontier for Body Language Mastery….The Amazing Power of Conversational Hypnosis!

(it’s NOT for everybody….but it very well may be for you if you’re super SERIOUS about taking your personal power to the next level)

Once again, the key to all of this stuff is pretty simple: 

Find the best available tips, tools and TECHNOLOGIES and use them to create massive internal transformation! 

That’s what I strive to do….and that’s our goal to share with you as well!

Once again….here is great, short little video montage of some pretty simple signs you ARE being lied to…and of course, what you need to know to get the upper hand when it happens! 

Enjoy…and don’t forget to leave us a comment below if you’ve liked the ones we’ve posted this far, along with anything else you’d like for us to share!
 

Who else wants to learn how to become more POWERFUL with their body language?

The simple truth is that one of the most FREQUENT questions we get from readers is how to appear more persuasive, personable and powerful, but……without having to change your personality, or become "fake" to do it.

And why should this be important to you?

1. Body Language is obviously super important in the workplace!
2. Your body language can either project CONFIDENCE.….or cowardice (you choose!)
3. Successful People have VERY similar motions, movements, gestures, postures and patterns. (figure these out and you’ll APPEAR successful….even if you’re still working your way to the top!)
4. No one gets a SECOND chance to make a first impression: Learn how a simple handshake could be the ONLY thing you need to make an unforgettable one.…fast!
5. What are verbal cues? (and the #1 thing you MUST not do if you don’t want to appear pushy, over-eager or too aggressive)
6. How much eye contact is comfortable? You want to appear CONFIDENT (but not creepy!)

Remember…..most of what you are communicating to others on a moment by moment basis is the stuff you are saying….when you aren’t saying a word!

And as many of you who have invested in our popular body language e course can attest, the benefits of making subtle "success" shifts in how you present yourself, can have INSTANT benefits, from the boardroom, to the bedroom…and beyond..:-)

With this in mind, take a peek at this short, but super instructive video that covers some simple, yet super easy to implement habits you can INSTANTLY use to make yourself more "saleable" in the workplace.

(and as I’m sure you’ll agree….in today’s hyper competitive job market, any UNFAIR ADVANTAGE you can get, is well worth getting!)

Enjoy….& make sure to try some of these simple, easy to implement tips and techniques Monday morning at the office!

(and of course, for the full enchilada of advanced tips, tricks and techniques proven to amp UP your presentational power…our COMPLETE body language course is only a few short mouse clicks away..:-)

Who is ready for a CRASH course "refresher" on some of the more POWERFUL body language tips we’ve learned thus far?  

If you’re ready for 150 seconds of simple, straightforward techniques to become the very BEST human lie detector around town…..you are going to LOVE this short video from Howcast.

What sort of stuff are we going to review?

It’s ALL in the Eyes!

1. How to quickly and easily tell if someone is LYING in 6 seconds or LESS (Hint…….Just ask a simple question and look out for THIS!)
2. The easiest way to gage cock sure confidence.…..BEFORE they even say a word! (This is great to mimic if you’ve got an important interview coming up)
3. What does DIRECT eye contact really say about you?  (could it really be the ONLY thing you need to do to become super sexy….almost OVERNIGHT?)
4. And the absolute FASTEST way to tell if they think you are SEXY  (or stupid!)

And what about those OTHER body language "tells" we’ve talked so much about?

• Does fidgeting mean you make them nervous……or are you simple BORING their pants off?  (and no….NOT in a good way..:-)

All of this and MORE…..simply hit play, and recap some of the best basic body language tells, tips & techniques you NEED to learn to become sexier, more successful, and simply more SAVVY, almost instantly!

PS:  There are at least 2 "TIPS" mentioned in this video that we STRONGLY disagree with.  (or think could be REALLY expanded upon.  Did you catch which 2 they were?  If you’re read our whole body language mastery course, I’m guessing you immediately identified the "offending" areas..:-) 

For everyone else……..care to take a guess? 

Get involved….and share in the comments below!  We’re curious JUST how closely you’re paying attention to the lessons you’re getting in your inbox…:-)

Enjoy!

With that in mind, here is a pretty good article from AskMen Magazine on some of the subtle (and not so subtle) body language signs a woman will offer when she wants to learn more about you in a more “intimate” setting..:-)

Check out the full article at the link below the post!

She maintains eye contactI’ve always preached the importance of eye contact in the past, especially when first approaching a target, but this is merely for the purposes of self-confidence. A woman will immediately find shifting eyes off-putting, but at the same time she usually averts her own gaze. Perhaps it’s biological or even chemical; when a male is expressing his interest and future intentions, the female will sometimes drop her eyes and blush.

Obviously, not all women respond in this fashion, but you can bet your very last dollar that all women will fix you with a certain look when things are proceeding. The trained ladies’ man knows this look; it usually comes at you from under the eyelashes. There’s the quirk of a smile playing at the corners of her lips, and she appears seconds away from an outright wink. The gaze is steady, seductive and, above all else, clear. Go.

She draws attention to/with her handsNow, here’s where you need to make the distinction. When nervous, women will often have nervous hands; they will unconsciously fix hair that doesn’t need fixing, or adjust a part of their outfit that doesn’t need adjusting.

The Player: Body Language That Leads To Sex – AskMen.com

Let’s talk a little bit and women, and SEX, and body language:

Now listen up: I’m NOT going to tell you that what a woman DOES with her body is more important than what she says….as obviously that’s a pretty dangerous recommendation to make! Remember….when a woman SAYS "no", that’s what she means! But, when you are flirting with someone and the interest is mutual…..you can often read a whole bunch of sexy intentions into what she’s TRYING to say, simply by watching her move.

For example:

When a woman opens her lips and gives you that pouty look…….especially when you are talking, it often means that she’s secretly thinking about kissing you, or, you kissing her..:-)

This is even MORE pronounced when she’s flirting with her eyes as well….and giving you a mischievous and super sexy stare, when you’re having fun and having a great conversation.

More overt signs that she’s sexually interested in you are obvious….yet many men still fail to recognize them:

A pushing out of the breasts…..an arching of the back, or even a woman who will gently touch her own shoulders, chest or other sensitive (and sexy) spots, while having an otherwise "innocent" conversation.

Other body language signs can be even SEXIER…..and a sure shot sign she’s not only INTERESTED, but she’s probably INTIMATELY interested in getting to know you a whole lot better!