Do you have your eye on someone you’d LIKE to know better….but are afraid to make the first move? Are you just a shy, subtle or just super SMOOTH operator who wants to turn someone on without ever even saying a word? If this sounds like you…..learning to flirt with body language is CLEARLY a good path to pursue!

So what are the keys to expressing interest with subtle signs? Well……as you’ve probably read in some of our previous posts on flirting, and expressing sexual or romantic interest, there are a BUNCH of good ways to get across you’d like to know more, WITHOUT ever having to say a word!

Here is a good article we found on About.Com – that lists some simple steps to successful flirting with body language alone. Check it out at the link below….and then stop back and let us know what you think! (or areas you could use some more information here on the body language blog..:-) Have a GREAT weekend….and we’ll speak to you soon!

flirt Using Your EyesHolding eye contact with someone you find appealing for approximately five seconds is well-used flirt tactic, mostly because it is highly effective, although its ease and simplicity of use doesn’t hurt. According to the book, "The Definitive Guide of Body Language," by Alan and Barbara Pease, the person initiating the flirt will – on average – need to lock eyes three times before the flirt recipient catches on.Preening To FlirtThere are many, many ways one groom themselves in public in a flattering yet flirty way, depending on your gender.

Ladies can try some hair stroking, posture enhancing, neck exposing, hip tilting (if standing), clothes straightening or lip licking – all with the intention of calling attention to her attractiveness. Men can also straighten their clothing, lick their lips or fix their hair, but they should also include things like hooking their fingers into their pants (if standing), suck in their stomach, or take deep breaths to increase the size of their chest. For both men and women, try to use preening body language that shows off your best features while enhancing what makes you, you.

Flirt Using Body Language – Flirt – Reading Body Language